Mums,
it’s time to revive your relationships & socialise with ease…
If you’re feeling cut off, lonely or like you’re not really enjoying motherhood chances are you need your relationships to build you back up. Your friendships and romantic relationships can bring you back to life! They can remind you what your passions are, what you’re good at, why they love you and what you have to offer this world! Because motherhood can really do a number on you…
But if you have no idea how you can sustainably nurture and enjoy your relationships with all the obstacles that motherhood can bring
(childcare issues, lack of energy / time, mum guilt to name a few) then fear not.
You’re in the right place.
Read on for how I can teach you the PRACTICAL ways you can build meaningful connection back into your life as a mum.
‘Connection is the energy that is created between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment.’
- Brene Brown
it all starts with getting you more meaningful connection
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it all starts with getting you more meaningful connection 🔗
Because once you master this, you’ll see how exciting life can be again. You haven’t passed your peak and there’s no need to look back on ‘the good old days’ before children because you will realise that the best is yet to come.
Imagine….
Feeling energised by your relationships because they are based around people, times and activities that work for YOU in your new era as a mum.
Leaning into your friendships more than you have in years – laughing, dancing and enjoying the good times together once more as well as being there for each other through all of the changes and the evolution that motherhood and life can bring.
Feeling confident in booking days, evenings and even trips away because you KNOW your system for curveballs and childcare is rock solid.
Being more in love with your partner than ever before. Enjoying romantic time together, feeling seen and understood and more importantly in awe of the father they are becoming.
Actually being fully present in social settings again because you are 100% confident that your child/children are not only being taken care of according to your standards but also ENJOYING their time with a sitter.
Within the ReKindle Your Relationships membership
you will learn alongside other like-minded and supportive mums to…
Master your mindset: Learn the importance of connection and why new mums need it.
Overcome mum guilt and any anxiety about leaving your child.
Plan for curve balls and set up childcare options a, b and c so that you don’t have to constantly cancel / bail on plans.
Make it work with old friends OR attract new friends who are on your wavelength.
Break out of the room-mate phase and breathe the fun back into your romantic relationship.
Membership Breakdown
A juicy curriculum made of
7 modules
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These lessons cover matrescence and the emotional effects of becoming a mum.
Why you might be missing the old you or your old life, and what you can do about it.
How to avoid monotony and inject fun and excitement into your life EVERY DAY.
The common pitfalls and how to avoid them.
Plus action steps you can take right away to start injecting connection and joy into your daily ritual.
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These lessons help you work out how much connection and what TYPE of connection is actually going to bring you personally the most joy (based off your personality type and your set up).
Plus we’ll work out your weekly child-free slots so that you know for sure what time you have for adult-only connection.
Then you'll learn how you can help your child and your partner bond so that you feel rock solid leaving them alone together.
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This module will explore the most common root causes of mum guilt so that you can identify and start to heal.
You'll also explore any anxiety around leaving your child and then learn how to overcome both guilt and anxiety so that you can move towards the life of your dreams.
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Module 4 will cover how you can plan for 90% of curveballs so that they don’t derail your plans and life!
You’ll also learn how to find, trial and trust the right babysitters for you and your child plus everything you need to set up a system with them that will make you feel secure and confident.
You’ll even be shown how to make quick-fire decisions about when to cancel plans vs when to call in a babysitter when curveballs do arise.
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This lesson will teach you all about the benefits of spontaneity for mothers and how you can use it to inject more joy into your life.
Plus you’ll start learning the system for building a local network to make spontaneous plans with friends no matter where you live.
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You’ll learn how to reach back out to old friends and have the confidence to bring your whole self (motherhood included) to the table.
You’ll feel empowered to craft a social life with times and activities that suit you.
You’ll discover which friendships no longer serve you during this season of your life and most importantly how to attract a like-minded tribe locally.
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These lessons will teach the practical steps to move past resentment and share the load more effectively.
They’ll also empower you to optimise time together and give you ways you can (and want to) bring intimacy back into the relationship.
By the end of these lessons you’ll feel stronger as a unit than ever before and actually have fun together through the wild ride of parenthood.
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12 x monthly group coaching calls with me
I know how important it is for you to have someone who's in it with you and really helping you stay accountable and make small tweaks and changes to the system every single week throughout this journey.
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Private community access
The private community is designed to facilitate peer-to-peer support so you're surrounded by a group of other like-minded mums creating the relationships and social life of their dreams. This is a safe space free from judgement. You'll be able to learn from one another as you grow and iterate upon your own ideas as well as cheer one another on.
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Bespoke feedback
I'll have your back on everything because I believe you shouldn't have to navigate this huge time of change on your own. I have seen it all – and throughout the program will be offering you bespoke feedback on your goals, templates and plans which are easy to set up, and how to make your life as a new mum something that has joy and connection running through it every single day. Plus, I'll help you avoid the most common pitfalls before they arise.
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Community challenges & guest speakers
We'll also give you access to other relationship and mindset experts, community challenges and additional easy-to implement hacks so that you can always make your relationships and social life a thing of ease and enjoyment rather than stress or anxiety.
You'll have access to all the calls, curriculum & community so that you can go through it at your own pace. I know how it feels to have a full plate, so everything is set up to get you the quickest results with the least amount of time and work on your part.
You may be wondering where you’ll find the time, energy or money to experience the ReKindle Your Relationships membership.
Well, the beauty is that by focusing in on a more sustainable and enjoyable way to connect back to your friends and partner, you’re actually going to set up your boundaries and time management more efficiently. This is going to result in MORE ENERGY and stop you WASTING money on social activities that no longer support your new lifestyle.
And so, the way I see it, the real risk is really you not doing this, and you spend another month, year or even couple of years isolating yourself and feeling more and more lonely.
Your friendships and relationship deteriorate as well as your mental health and overall happiness. Unfortunately it’s the mums who suffer when her relationships breakdown but this has a knock on effect to her children. Through lived experience and through the work with my clients I know things don’t have to be this way.
Or if you do choose to join us, you could have a full and thriving social life that allows you to connect with those you love daily, weekly, monthly as well as punctuate these first few years of motherhood with long lasting friendships and a romantic relationship that’s stronger than ever.
Plus be a role model for your child/children, they get to see first-hand what healthy relationships look like and benefit from a happy mum and more balanced home life as a result.
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Instant access to the ReKindle Your Relationships membership and community.
£565 worth of bonuses
Private coaching call with me.
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Instant access to the ReKindle Your Relationships membership and community.
£625 worth of bonuses
Private coaching call with me.
1 month free
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1 x Free ticket to our in-person workshops starting from January in London (worth £65)
1 x private coaching call with me to trouble shoot any specific problems (worth £500)
Payment Plans
Hi, I’m Zoe!
And the best bit? I'm right in this with you. Taking care of a very spirited toddler AND living the social life of my dreams with amazing relationships all around me so there really is no problem that we can't solve together.
After a successful 13-year corporate career working in London and New York as a Senior Director of Creative Project Management (at brands like Marie Claire, Instyle and Amazon) and a founder of multiple businesses I know a thing or two about thinking outside of the box to overcome obstacles.
This alongside my own lived experience of becoming a mum, having a partner who travels frequently with work, juggling work, home and relationships has enabled me to build out my unique frameworks and approach which focus on teaching mums practical and long-lasting lifestyle changes to ensure that motherhood is an accelerator NOT a blocker to their lives.
Having seen how much of an impact this is had not only on my own life but on some of those closest around me I can't wait to help more women break free from their monotonous life where they put themselves at the bottom of the pile and start living full of joy. And guess what - it really does improve the way you experience parenting too!
Any questions? Get in touch!
I’d love to hear from you…